I get bored with every woman I date after a few months (or weeks or days or hours). I had one two year relationship where the woman dumped me for cheating. The only reason I didn't leave her first was because she was an awesome cook.
So girls.. tell me what makes you worth committing to...?
Let me give you a more informed perspective: IMO don't bother committing to today's women - they've all been poisoned by the feminist culture; none of them are worthy wife material, b/c they don't know how to act like ladies and they're also notorious for creating unrealistic expectations -which plays a major role in why women are not happy in marriage and related directly to why women file divorces at a higher rate than men.
Think of the picture: she'll want to to provide AND help around the house, AND be sensitive to her needs, AND earn enough money, AND be available for the family AND spend time with her. Ontop of this, she will want to take over your whole life, claim your income as hers, to buy her a big house, an expensive ring then impregnate her and support the kids for 18 years. Moreover, expect sex on HER schedule, and expect to do 1/2 the housework, otherwise its considered "demeaning" and have little to no say in how the money should be spent
What's more, there will be no appreciation for your efforts, constantly dealing with a wife who is never satisfied by your hard efforts, how nothing you do is NEVER enough, constant nagging, b itching, whinging, less sex and plenty of emotional abuse. Then combine this w/ the fact that women are predisposed to think that they're better than you, b/c that's what they have been told growing up, so she will always feel that her needs are far more important than yours, so in order to get your needs fulfilled, you need to address hers first.
Why else do you think women make that argument that in order to for him to get some action in the bedroom, he has to do more outside the bedrom.
Now combine this w/ the divorce stats (50% chance of divorce occurring, w/ a 65% chance that it will be the one initiating by her), no-fault divorce and the financial and legal risks involved(she's almost guaranteed custody of the child in the event of a divorce, and can also seize anywhere b/w 50-90% of your assets, such as your car, house etc - ontop of this you have to pay child support and alimony not based on what you make, but based on imputed income, which is decided by the court), you would have to be a moron to enter into a legal contract w/ them.
So ask yourself: what can you actually gain from marriage? Nothing. It's a losing proposition, so why bother limiting yourself when you can just get the milk for free w/o buying the cow, and let some other clueless idiot deal w/ all their nonsense? Just remember that the risks and liabiltiies will always outweigh the benefits of marriage. Bottomline is: Don't marry!
Sorry you only see women in a negative light. I think you filter tell me why everthe world around you to reinforce your own beliefs about people. A lot of women are good people but I don't think you are seeing them for what they are because you can't see beyond your own bitterness and anger. Stay single.
I admit that I am cynical about my views; however, I'm only being realistic about their behaviour, and also given the fact that I've studied family law - that was a real eye-opener.
The type of women described above account for at least the majority out there, so the prospect of finding good wife material is slim. Either way, I still would have no incentive to marry.
Furthermore, given today's legal climate of marriage and divorce, it is far too risky for a man to enter into a contract w/ a woman, so it's within my best interests, financially and legally etc, to protect myself from a certain anti-male contract. Many more men seem to be waking up to this, too.
Stay single? I'll prefer to date, thanks.
YOU have the committing problem. i wouldn't want you committing to me anyway
I can't answer that because I do not want you to commit to me!
Your statement tells me that you should never get married because you are not willing to do the things necessary to sustain a long term relationship. Married people get bored with each other, too. The ones who stay together choose to remain faithful to their partners and work on spicing things up to alleviate the boredom, instead of seeking a new plaything, as you have done.
A good friend of mine recently said about his wife:
"I never met a woman that I could live with, until I met a woman that I couldn't live without."
Don't commit to anyone who doesn't give you that feeling. What would you do if you committed to someone, then found the right woman later? I'm not talking about getting bored with the one you're with, I mean there is at least one person out there who is truly meant for you.
However, a lot of us "girls" are worth committing to. You just haven't met the right one. =;o)
for love! bottom line!
if you want a maid committ to a service not achick
if you want sex go to a prostitute
if you want long lasting communication, bestfriend, passion, the find someone who meets your needs!
not every girl is your type!
and for what i can see you won't find her unless there are more passive females out there who love to be walked all over and cheated on..
I use to get board with my men i'm in my longest relationship now! but he is the one! and we both know it!
once you find the right girl you may change your mind too!
but if you look for her you will not find her! just how stuff works!~
Best of luck! and being single isn't a bad thing so don't commite unless you mean it or wanttell me why ever to hurt people for no reason!
Stay single. Some people are not meant to be with someone and you are one of them.
well im not going to tell you to do anything Brad D. Its up to you if u decide to gte married. Wether you do or you don't it doesn't affect me in any way. If you ever get married though do it because you really love the woman and are going to treat her right.
I pick my buttox & fling it at my mate ... you want to stay away from me ;o)
sorry but it sounds to me like YOU have the commitment problem. I feel sorry for any female that stumbles into your lair. SEEK HELP now!
Marriage is not something for everyone and it dosn't change the persepective's of the relationship (well supopsedly) marriage is a long term commitment that takes two people who are devoted to each other and are commited to make it work and work at it to work.
You are not the marrying kind unless you find yourself a woman that is open to a open relationship or a swingers lifestyle so that you would never be bored...
When you find the one things will change perspective for you and you will know when that happens because no one else will be as good as them.
Please don't. We'll establish a holiday in your name.
You shouldn't. Marriage is not for everyone. Obviously it's not them, it's about you and your choices. I would recommend some self-reflection instead of marriage.
So, you think that you are marriage material?? You cannot be serious!! I'm sure that you are quite boring and you probably would not know how to operate a microwave oven. You're a fool !!
First off: don't cheat. Bottom line. You can't have two relationships at once.
I think you might need to look at yourself for problems before you start blaming the entire female sex for your commitment issues.
just stay single! it would be better anyway...for you...you could find tons of good cooks! :-F
Marriage is not something you should do because somebody told you to. That's your decission. You should be able to know all the pros and cons, so you choose.
Brad here's how I think: (this is for the sake of your question only) I'm not about to convince you of anything; why should I? We work out we work out, we don't we don't. (shruggs and walks off)
There is nothing for you to commit to. Always remember it is not written in stone that a person has to marry.........But if you happen to spawn children be prepared to pay for them.
it is a good way to lock up a hot piece of azz like Giggly Giraffe for a year or so!
If you never want to get married, we don't mind. That means we're safer. Don't bother.
Now would any men like to tell ME why I should marry any of you?
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