Wednesday, January 11, 2012

why does women cheatWhy do married women cheat? especially if they have kids and a secure home & lifestyle with their husbands?

We always address why we think men cheat but, lets shed some light on why women Cheat? What are the men that they cheat with referred to? The Other men? Are husbands as forgiving as wives when they find out hubby is cheating? Please share personal experiences if you have any. I'd like to know.

When I was married I never cheated on my habitual cheating husband.
Simply, I cheated because my husband could not meet my sexual needs. In addition, in today's society women have the upper hand and have more opportunities to cheat. Men have fallen behind... Also, I believe it can be difficult for 1 man to consistently meet a woman's needs while men can be satisfied with a flick of the wrist. Lastly, women to day outgrow their husbands in many cases. In my case, I was more successful and kept myself in much better shape while he was stagnant in his job making less than me and not taking care of himself. We were not equally matched and I made a decision to get a man that has the ability to please me more. While I made the decision the wrong way (cheating which resulted in alot of guilt) it was right for me. Even now though,he still wants me back...so go figure?
Old news: J E makes a great point. It falls down to morals really and it can go both ways (men and women.) We make the decision to cheat within that instant but can't make the decision to break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend before doing so? Ironic isn 't it.


this is scary i will never get married


thats how much u take ur spouse for granted. and kudos to ur husband for wanting some1 like u back!


Women who cheat do it because they either have forgotten the promises they made when they got married or they don't care. It seems most women place a high value on spontaneity, drama, and excitement. For some reason many women like knowing that other men still want them (since they're married they should only be concerned about being attractive to the person they're married to). A person's morals are a deeply ingrained part of who they are. I think there is definitely a type of person who cheats and a type who would never cheat, and I would hope a person would know what type they're with before marrying them. To answer the other part of the question, cheating why does women cheatis totally unforgivable and would be immediate grounds for divorce. It is absolutely the worst kind of betrayal.
I can feel pretty miserable with my husband sometimes. I even joke with him about having a boyfriend. He is gone every other week. HOme for week, gone for a week, sometimes for two weeks. I stay home 24/7 with the kids so it would be pretty easy for me to have an affair if I wanted to. But no matter how unhappy I feel at times I could never do such a thing.
I guess I'd compare it to drug use. Some people turn to drugs or alcohol when they are unhappy. They think it makes the problem go away. Some people commit adultery 'cause it makes them feel better. In both situations no one has taken the time to solve the problem.
Women cheat for different reasons. Some cheat because they've lost an emotional attachment from their husbands. Others actually cheat for sexual reasons. However, let me be clear on this issue. Cheating is completely wrong and there is no valid excuse. A person can whine and cry about how they made a mistake and ask you to take them back but I still say B.S.

I have been cheated on by ex-girlfriends and my ex-wife. I tried to forgive the first time I was cheated on but could not handle the thoughts going through my head. From that point on, I had a zero-tolerance policy for infidelity. I now keep things simple for relationships. If we have a problem, lets talk about it and work it out or go our separate ways.

I don't feel I should have to forgive a woman that cheats because I've never cheated and never will. Shouldn't I hold any woman I'm with to the same standard?
I cheated because i was not in love with my spouse..you don't think about your children or anything when you're doing it...it's totally a selfish ,terrible thing i did , i admit that...and sometimes you can't wait 2 yrs for a divorce to be final...at first he was forgiving..but now,...he wants me out...i deserve it.
I thought about cheating when our realtionship was really bad. But I didnt. He did.

I think women cheat because they are in need of someone to talk to them, hold them, and to make them feel special.
Married women cheat because they are very horny and like drama. Some women like to live a troublesome life.
..i think women cheat bc of something missing emotionally. or bc the 'other man' has more money. i dont know. either way its no good.
why does women cheat
you dont want to be with someone.
then leave!
I do not know. They must be really horny or else they need to reach out in some way or find a man who has qualities that are unlike their spouse.
ask my ex wife
Married men usually do not forgive the wife of an affair. Women are more likely to do so of a husband. These are statistically speaking anyway. Not sure of the last time the numbers were run.

Now, I can tell you why I think women cheat. These are merely my opinions, so take them as you will.

Women marry a man then decide to change him or fix him. She gets mad when he will not go along or do or be what she tells him to be. Women seem to think they will fix a man and then get upset when they cant make him fall in line. So they start to find fault or consider him less a man or lose respect for him.

Women have most of the advantages in situations and they know it. They can play the system, men and everything else. Women can usually get by with just about anything and they know that too, so they try.

Women have the ability to convince themselves of anything. No matter what it usually is, a women can convince herself of whatever suits her purpose on the matter. She can talk herself into or out of anything based on emotions and then find a way to convince herself that she is not doing wrong, instead she see's herself as the victim who is made to do whatever it is. Add in the fact that women seem to hang together and with like minded women and that only adds to the trouble.

Women in my view do not use logic except when being devious. Instead, they are emotional based beings. And emotions can lead you into any number of problems. Women also have the ability to overlook being wrong or tell themselves they are not wrong no matter what.

Women always like to think that they are so much better then men. They like to contend that men are merely dogs while women are angels who are forced or tricked into whatever it is they do which is wrong. No matter what happens, women usually will not admit wrong or even see that they are. They will instead shift that blame to a man as much as possible.

Visit the site www.nomarriage.com It will enlighten you to a degree, if you allow it to do so.

avril lavigne 2009Wasn't the new (2009) Avril Lavigne cd supposed to come out a few days ago? What happened to it? :(?

the release was never confirmed by avril or anyone associated with her for november 17th. she recently said it would be out next year march, with the first single early next year (presumably january)

cant wait
here you go

Lavigne is currently working on her fourth studio album, which is due out in earlavril lavigne 2009y 2010. Eight songs, four of which Lavigne had written as a teenager, have been recorded as of August 1. The album will be a return to Lavigne's older musical style and is going to be largely acoustic.[43] Tracks on the forthcoming album include: "Everybody Hurts," "Black Star," "Gone,"avril lavigne 2009 "Fine," and "Darlin," the latter being the second song Lavigne ever wrote as a 15-year-old while living in Napanee, Ontario. Lavigne has been working with her ex-husband Deryck Whibley and Butch Walker.[44]
It may have been put back to another release date later.

do cats whiskers fall outWhat does it mean when cats whiskers fall out?

Recently I've noticed a few whiskers from my ragdoll cat (1 year old). Is this normal and does it mean anything, or is it part of losing their summer coat. Please reply.
When a cat's whiskers start falling out excessively, this indicates there's an underlying medical problem and/or skin problem. If you find a whisker on the floor, hdo cats whiskers fall outere and there, this is normal, as whiskers do fall out and new ones regenerate.

If your cat's whiskers are falling out by the bunch and her whisker pads really look bare, definitely have her checked out by your vet ASAP to find the cause and have it treated. I hope she'll be fine!

Good luck!
It is normal for whiskers to faldo cats whiskers fall outl out.
They grow to a certain length then after a while fall out while a new whisker grows to take its place.
This is very normal, I find my cats whiskers laying around all over the place. I wouldn't about it unless they start falling out excessively. (:
normal. its just losing their summer coat

playstation 2 cheatsMedevil 2 Playstation Cheats?

Does anyone have Medevil 2 cheats for playstation. We really need them. We especially need tips on how to beat the 4 green switches part where you have to leave your playstation 2 cheatshead in the blue box. Please let us know. Thanks.
just visit this site to have more information

http://mg.misterape.com/?ac=vid&vid=5712...


steay cool
You can playstation 2 cheatsalso try GamesRadar -- they've got a load of cheats.

http://www.gamesradar.com/us/ps2/cheats/index.jsp

faster than a kiss 16When's faster than a kiss chapter 16's english release date?

im really inlove with this manga XD

I SOOO want to be the female protagonist right now XD

:X :X :X :X :X
I love this manga too!!! and i've been to onemanga several times, but it is always behind...try mangafox.com, it is always fast and up to date very quickly!!!! I love it!!! alsofaster than a kiss 16, try mixed vegetables on mangafox. it is very good, there are many others there that are amazing!!!! ^-^
theres no 16 in mangafox!it has by name but the chapter isn't 16 but 17 same with onemanga...they say they don't have the raws...my sister said it changed...thats proof..i haven't read wfaster than a kiss 16ats in manga fox but i think theres chap 1-15 and 17-18..


i dont know where you read manga but you can check onemanga.com and they usually have alot of manga translated up to date so good luck.

why i danceWhy do so many women like to dance? What is so fun about it?

Why do women like dancing? Is it sexual? Is it the closeness? Every answer I have found is, "It's fun." Well why is it fun? I am not trying to cut down dance in any way and am not being macho. I just want to understand why so many women like dancing while so few men (myself included) do. Also, it seems to me that most men "enjoy" dancing only as long as it can get them women. Since this is not my concern, why dance learn to dance at all?
Most women like to dance because it's a form of expressing themselves in a joyous manner. It's one method of stress relieve in a positive, energetic way. Depending on the type of music, dancing can sometimes be meant for a sexual purpose of obtaining closeness to another individual. Dancing increases ones energy level, and boosts mental stamina. Yes, Dancing Is FUN! It has so many benefits, physical, mental, and social:

it teaches relationships necessary in close teamwork;
it teaches discipline through practice and routines;
it teaches an appreciation and further understanding of music's rhythm and temp;
it teaches economics and fluidity in movement;
it teaches poise and balance; it teaches self-confidence;
it teaches good dress and appearance.
it teaches a skill and ability that will be very useful all throughout life - in social situations, in business growth, and in offering a great exercise.

I truly hope this answers your questions
Personally, I think its because women in general have no other hobbies. They have been brainwashed into thinking that dance will get them a good man when in fact the only reason a real man dances is to get a women. After they are married they are nagged to go dancing again. Real men dont dance.


I hate dancing and I hate women who dance. I just hate women in general.


First of all, each female likes/dislikes dancing for a personal reason. I think women feel free while dancing, and also dancing is most likely to be liked by an active female, as a kind of sport/activity.
Anyway remember that dancing is also a kind of time spending way, where you can have fun witwhy i danceh your friends, smth most people would enjoy.

Don't you guys like it?
I enjoy dancing as it enables me to let go of the chatter and stress of my normal life. I guess I use it as a stress buster in someways and in my opinion its more fun than going to the gym. I think that the whole women dance and guys don't is a bit dated as I know guys who love to dance and women who can't stand it.

At the end of the day it comes down to your own personal preferences, if you don't enjoy dancing you probably find it hard to see why people are so into it and people who love to dance can't always see why other people aren't so keen.

The best advice I can offer to you is to look around at the different types of dance and see if you find one which is better suited to you as a person. Really you should only continue dancing if you really want to, if you're not that interested then you're probably just stressing yourself further.
I am a straight male,....I like to dance. Don't speak for ALL of US. You say "SO" FEW men" when what you should have said is "A" FEW men. You, and a minority (not a majority as you suggest) can't, won't, or don't wish to take the time to learn, will never know the real answer....because you won't TRY. Perhaps you're not interested because it's not all about "YOU". You question reads as if you don't wish to do anything that does not give you some personal gain in return. It has more to do with SHARING a good song or time with someone. Not,- why do it if there's nothing in it for JUST ME.
i like dancing because i can express myself by moving my body to the music, and every guy that i have danced with has liked dancing and they did it well. it is all in how you move.
You need to go do some NYC dance clubs.... more guys dancing than girls.... and no, I'm not talking about the gay scene. You wanna see guys dance? go to www.video.google.com look for "breaking" or "locking" etc. all guys. . . (mostly)
Naturally human beings wants to attain perfectness by all means whether it is cooking or building or in arts. Women in general show elegance in all way of life. Dance is one way to the perfection and to attrawhy i dancect the opposite and in this way they not only establishes their supermacy but establishes a more space around them.
Men and women dance because it is exercise to rhythm. Some dancing reaches aerobic heights. You can save money over joining a fitness club for moderate exercise just by loving to dance. Even without romantic feelings for anyone at the dance, dancing is fun. It is social.

The gender balance at contra dances is very good. At Glen Echo in the D.C. area, some 300 men join some 300 women. Here in Colorado it is about 75-75. In contra dance, you dance with one partner and meet all your neighbors by progressing up or down the set. At the end of the dance, which is called to live musicians, you thank your partner and invite another partner for the next dance. This socializing factor is wonderful.

Swing dance is pretty well gender-balanced, too.
It doesn't really matter why anyone dances. Everyone has individual likes and dislikes. If you don't like to dance, then please don't. But any man out there who does want to dance, well then by all means I will be more than happy to dance with you.

Dancing is a beat, a rhythm, a constant that can be simple or complex depending how "into" the music you are. Just as running, swimming, jogging, basketball, etc.. are also a rhythm. Dancing is just a different kind of rhythm.

And just as running, swimming, jogging etc.. can be an enjoyable way to keep the beat for some people, dancing can also be an enjoyable way to keep the beat for others. Male or female.

I don't like to swim.

Cassiopeia
Dancing. I a guy and the only dancing I do is ddr dancing. And its all about the music for me. Any other dancing I don't get
wow I am not sure if you are a girl or a boy but you are a major jerk. I understand why you might be wondering that. But that is just like asking why do girls like swimming or why do boys like x box? It is just stupid. I personal love danceing and I go to PVPA which is a permorning arts school and I dance a lot.

happy break up songsWhat are some happy break up songs?

My boyfriend and I just broke up. I want to update my play list with break up songs. But I don't want songs that say I want him back or that I'm sad to no longer be with him. I am actually very content with having being done with him. Can anyone help me out with a list of possible songs?? Either Spanish or English would be nice.
Thanks in advanced.
I'm not sure what your taste in music is, but I listen to a little of everything, so I have a little of everything on my ipod, check some of these out:

Love Is Gone - David Guetta (the video is awesome, too!) [Dance/electronic] - Weirdest breakup song you've ever heard...because it doesn't make you want to cry...It makes you euphoric.

Taught Me Well - Alice Peacock [Indie] I don't know how suitable this one would be for your situation, but it's about a serious relationship that ends and sounds like a woman looking back and thinking, "Thankhappy break up songs God I didn't marry that guy!"

Irreplaceable - Beyoncé [pop] I know this one is really obvious and mainstream...but it makes you so darn happy to throw a loser to the curb.

Slow Dancing in a Burning Room - John Mayer [pop rock] More of an eminent breakup song where you know it can just never work out and you're sick of all the mind games. Not really "happy", but more fed up.

Let Him Fly - Patty Griffin [indie/acoustic] "Ain't no talkin' to this man...", "I'm gonna let him fly" (Dixie Chicks covered this one...but I am a fan of the original)

Bitter Heart - Zee Avi [rockabilly pop] I don't know...it's just a cute song. : )

Ego - The Saturdays [British pop] Addictive, upbeat, and with just enough attitude. I don't know who couldn't love this one.

Poppiholla - Chicane [trance] Okay, this one doesn't even have lyrics, but I've been listening tohappy break up songs this song non-stop the past few days and it's like listening to pure joy so I have to include this...
You're welcome! Hope someone better eventually comes along! Enjoy your newfound freedom! :-)


Better that we Break
Maroon 5

The Break Up Song by The Greg Kihn Band
Go You Own Way by Fleetwood Max
Good Bye Love by the Everly Brothers
Good Loving Gone Bad by Bad Company
Bye Bye Love by the Cars
Since I Left You, by the Avalanches

(the song starts at 1 minute in the video I've posted)
fort minor - believe me
Break up song by Wale !
goodwill hunting by myself by Ludo
the funniest freaking song you will ever listen to! i loooooove it!
Who let the dogs out - Baha Men
Lilly Allen - smile
boy crazy's that's what love can do.